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by **ursulabear** on 20 Mar 2011, 12:08

I am super uptight. Super anal retentive. I keep a strict schedule, and nothing pisses me off more than people not sticking to it. Kenny is very apathetic, very aloof, very wish-washy. It drove me crazy! He was always late and never had any idea of what he wanted to do. I got so fed up.

by **queenofnerds** on 20 Mar 2011, 14:18

Well it's a shame that you weren't compatible, but I guess some things are just too hard to live with and it's best to move on

by **queenofnerds** on 10 May 2011, 11:53

Down with eyes romantic and stupid
Down with sighs and down with cupid
Brother let's stuff that dove
Down with love

by **Ann** on 17 May 2011, 07:37

I am back with Timothy for the bazillionth time, but it's really going well this time. He just really screwed up the first few years of our relationship, and I was ridiculously immature. When we got back together last year, I was pregnant within the month, and that and the miscarriage really made things far too tenuous. I was not emotionally stable at all and would explode at him for the tiniest things, and he was super insecure and called me like 30 times once because I didn't reply to a text message in like 20 minutes. Drove me crazy.

But now we have both sort of figured things out and it's going so well. Except for that he's in the army and I haven't spoken to him in weeks. But anyway, I love him.

by **Ceres** on 17 May 2011, 09:25

Sound nice, that you are giving your love a chance

For me it's "Oh to be in love / And never get out again." ( sorry, I tend to be romantic at times...)

by **queenofnerds** on 17 May 2011, 09:59

Yes that ^^ I would love to be in love and never fall out again. It would be nice to feel that way forever but I think it is unreasonable. There are things I definitely love about my man, he is amazing and funny and sweet but I wish I could feel the way I felt when I first met him.
But then we were only teenagers. It's strange when I mention this to him he always says "well I lost those feelings a long time ago but I still love you!" I think he is always surprised that I only just lost it. Hit me hard though.
Been really stupid lately and made a fool of myself, I always get exactly what I deserve I guess.

by **queenofnerds** on 17 May 2011, 12:44

I have decided to not be down. I am very, very lucky. I'll always love my man and I'll always love the other guy too. Don't need to be with him to feel it. I'm with who I should be and he is with who he should be.

Limetless love for all, we all win

by **milkisobel** on 21 May 2011, 19:06

by **ursulabear** on 21 May 2011, 23:03

As long as you are happy, Priscilla, I am (we are) happy for you. Does Timothy have anxiety problems? What you said about him calling you a gazillion times sounds like me. I get so anxious if people don't tell me where they are going and won't answer my calls. I don't have a cellular for exactly that reason.

by **Ann** on 25 May 2011, 01:27

I don't really know why he was so anxious before, but he's less so now. Honestly, my little analysis of it is that he was incredibly insecure with our relationship. He always told me he felt that I was going to "grow out of him," like he's a childish habit or something. When we were first together, he would never do stuff like that, but I think he just got really worried about me, perhaps because I was far less dependent on him and made it obvious, all the time, I had no need for him. Things are different now.

I get anxious about my family. Whenever my mother or sister leaves, I am always silently praying (to the universe, no deity) that they will come home soon so I can stop worrying. But I never actually call because I feel silly.

by **Gerritsón** on 25 May 2011, 09:52

But do you still live with your parents Ann?

by **Ann** on 25 May 2011, 10:55

Yessir.

22 and I live at home. And proud of it. I love my mom and sister, I don't want to leave them. :/

by **ursulabear** on 25 May 2011, 12:26

There was a time in my life when I had a really unhealthy codependant relationship with my best friend. But I have pretty severe GAD, and sometimes my anxiety consumes me. I remember the very first thing you ever sent me, Ann, maybe three years ago. You sent me a moustache necklace, and you said that your sister sneered when you made it!

by **Gerritsón** on 25 May 2011, 17:34

That's nice of Ann

Ehmmm.. about love... I really really liked a Japanese girl that I was hanging out with. And then I heard she had a boyfriend.. I tolld her about her feelings and she said that she was happy to know it. She even wrote me a letter explaining that she really missed her boyfriend in Japan who was waiting for her to come back.

she's the girl in the picture above. I was having so much fun with her, she's awesome :oops:

by **queenofnerds** on 25 May 2011, 17:49

That is sooo adorable ^^ You are a sweetie!!

by **milkisobel** on 05 Jun 2011, 23:37

i'm so happy to have this place, i'm feeling well among you guys

by **queenofnerds** on 06 Jun 2011, 12:50

I am glad to have all of you guys too xxxxx

Having a nightmare day alread *sigh*

by **milkisobel** on 06 Jun 2011, 18:27

by **Wanbli** on 06 Jun 2011, 18:55

indeed, tales of love lift the spirit!
Gerritson, make sure you keep in touch with her - when she breaks with her BF in Japan, it will give you a reason to go visit

I have been in love every minute since I saw (actually her smell is what did it) my wife 24 years ago

by **Gerritsón** on 06 Jun 2011, 20:33

hurray for Wanbli and his beautiful wife! :rawk-r:

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